| Ebony was born 10 weeks early weighing
2lb 3oz. She was growth retarded had chronic lung disease and fought hard to stay
alive. Over the next four years she was slow to grow, developmentally delayed
and vomited almost every night, she was also very hard to handle and her behaviour
was a constant battle. We were under the paediatric doctors and saw them every
three months. I breastfed her for nine and a half months and then put her
on formula until she was 15 months old, when we introduced cow's milk. After
an awful six weeks of her crying almost all night and vomiting up what I would
describe as lumps of rubber I put her back on the formula and it made a very slight
difference. Being slightly dairy intolerant myself I felt she must have
inherited that, but every time I went to the doctors I was told an intolerance
was unlikely and I shouldn't deprive my child of dairy products. Being a
first time mum I went home and carried on watching our wee girl vomiting and worried
constantly about her weight, height and behaviour. As time went on things
didn't improve. She would go to bed and wake-up an hour later and vomit, she screamed
in pain, but seemed to get relief after vomiting. More visits to the doctors
and I came our feeling like a neurotic first time mother. I was told she had a
behavioural problem. She was anxious and maybe we should just walk away and shut
the door when she start6s to vomit and eventually she'll learn to stop making
herself sick. We failed to see how a child could go to sleep and wake up and vomit
just to annoy her parents. More visits to doctors and still no answers was
really distressing us. When she was 3½ years old I went back to the doctors
and demanded that they test her for everything they could think of and I asked
for her to be tested for coeliac disease. They weren't keen to do this but after
me insisting they did the tests and told me the results showed nothing up. I asked
for her to be allergy tested and was asked why I would want to put my child through
that. Another 6 months passed and Ebony got really sick, she was losing
weight, her hums were bleeding, she had ulcers all through her mouth, she was
vomiting 2 or 3 times a day and wouldn't eat or drink anything except her milk
which cam back up and she was in so much pain. I took her to the dentist
to be told her teeth were in the state of someone with bulimia. As a last
resort I rang Dr Ford and luck was on our side, we could get an appointment. After
explaining everything to Dr Ford and doing skin prick tests it revealed that she
was dairy intolerant and from that day she was on a dairy free diet. More blood
tests and an endoscopy revealed that she was highly gluten sensitive which we
could have been told 6 months earlier by the paeds doctors, to this day I still
don't know why they couldn't have told me when a normal reading should have been
from 0-20 and she was 111. We then started a gluten free diet and the results
to us are amazing. She had only vomited about 6 times in the last year and that
was a result of having something she shouldn't have had. She is growing, although
not fast, she has become better behaved and has caught up developmentally, she
is very active and is really enjoying school, gymnastics and swimming. The
relief that we felt after walking out of Dr Ford's office was wonderful, we finally
had someone who believed us, listened to us and was helping us. We have completely
lost faith in the medical profession and have become very sceptical of their decisions
and suggestions. We have found that "allergy" is like a dirty
word and is a thing they aren't interest in investigating. We are very angry it
had taken so long to get answers we could have had 4 years ago. We have
become a lot more assertive and think that doctors need to know that sometimes
parents to know best after all its us that have to live with the effects of such
problems. It is also mentally and emotionally damaging as a parent to see
their child going through such pain and the feeling of hopelessness is enormous.
We also realise that not all doctors are as negative about allergies as others
and we often say thank goodness for Dr For and Doctors like him. 
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